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This Mom is Thanking a Good Samaritan for Replacing a Memorial Bench After it was Vandalized

This Mom is Thanking a Good Samaritan for Replacing a Memorial Bench After it was Vandalized

A memorial bench bought for a mother’s late son in Scunthorpe, England, is being replaced after it was destroyed by vandals.

Sue Dook installed the bench in Central Park, Scunthorpe, in memory of her son Mathew, but it was destroyed in December.

After seeing the story on the BBC, Harold Payne, who owns the Anglia Motel and D Day Cafe near Fleet Hargate, Holbeach, raised enough money at his cafe to buy a replacement.

Sue said: “There are some nice people out there who are willing to go above and beyond and help other people. That kind of restores your faith in humanity.”

Mathew, who was 19, died in 2023 from diabetic ketoacidosis, a condition caused by a severe lack of insulin.

Sue said she bought the bench on what would have been his 30th birthday and “specifically placed” it at a spot in Central Park.

Reflecting on the vandalism, she said: “We were just absolutely devastated.

Emma Marie Castelluccio The photo shows what would have been a bench - but over 20 of the panels, as well as the legs and arms on one side, have been cut up. It's leaning on the floor. It's situated in a park, which is filled with grass and trees.
Credit: Emma Marie Castelluccio

“It was a birthday present for him, for a birthday that he wasn’t around for.”

She said the bench gave family and friends a place to remember him.

“It’s somewhere we can go, we can sit, we can think about him and now it’s coming up to nicer days, I can meet family there and his friends can take the kids there,” she said.

Harold said he had raised money for various charities and people over the years, including helping World War Two veterans return to Normandy.

He said he wanted to do the same for Sue so a replacement bench could be bought.

“It really wound me up because it was something very special for his mother,” he said.

“When you see something like that, what people have done, just sheer vandalism, it breaks your heart.”

He raised the money by putting a bucket in his cafe next to a sign explaining what had happened to Mathew’s bench.

Sue called Harold “a remarkable man” with “such a huge heart”.

She said she hoped to donate money raised separately back to Harold and his charity “so he can pay it forward and go and help somebody else”.

“That’s what Mathew would want,” she added.

Read more from BBC News.

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